I'm so sorry that you are going through these hard issues. As people have explained, the affairs he has do not affect the outcome of the case, but combined with his "setting you up" for domestic violence charges, shows a difficult mentality on his part, for you to have to battle alone. Restraining orders are serious. They can greatly affect your custodial timeshare (if you have minor children together); affect spousal support; and even future employment possibilities. It's very important to...