A copy can be requested but does not need to be provided. If you believe someone has taken advantage of your mom, the only way to address that before she dies is through a conservatorship proceeding. That can be expensive, so you need to weigh the costs and benefits of initiating that process. You should meet with an Elder Law attorney to determine, what, if anything should be done.
What is your total estate? That affects the answer. If under 5.25M, lots of options with no tax consequences.
As far as simplest, gift them the money, no tax to them, but the amount over 28K is a taxable gift and would apply against your lifetime exclusion of 5.25M. You could also refinance their debt on commercially reasonable terms. Right now you could do a 9 year loan with interest only for about 1% and then refinance after that.
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You need an Estate Planning attorney to prepare a nomination of guardian. You should also be thinking about an estate plan to provide management of assets to care for your daughters and leave money for them as they get older. Rosemary Meagher-Leonard is in your area. She's on AVVO.
You can mark (sign) a legal document in anyway you want as long as its your mark and you identify it as such. People change their signatures all the time and sign letters and documents differently. Its only an issue if someone later questions the signature or wants proof that the signature belongs to you. It would be illegal for you to later deny its your signature on the document if you in fact sign it in a way different than you usually do.
The spendthrift provisions are for your beneficiaries. You have no creditor protection from your revocable trust. At the first death, if the trust creates a Bypass Trust, and/or Marital Trust which are irrevocable, those trusts could have creditor protection for the surviving spouse.
Did they health care worker work for any agency? That agency and the worker could be liable for neglect. The hospitals records would have to be reviewed to determine if they did anything wrong once the woman gor there.
Its not per se unethical, but it does sound like a conflict of interest. It also sounds like you may have a civil claim for malpractice, negligence and breach of fiduciary duty. You need to consult with a malpractice attorney. Also, you can look into filing a complaint with the state bar.
Unless there is some provision in the trust prohibiting sale or some compelling reason that the property was intended for use by the beneficiary or would somehow cause the beneficiary harm, the trustee has the right and power, and possibly even the duty to sell the property. If you believe there is a problem, you should contact a trust litigation attorney and provide them a copy of the trust and all the reasons you object.
Not sure what your question is. What its seems like is that John Doe created a trust for the benefit of Jim Doe and named Jack Doe as trustee of that trust. That is perfectly fine if that is in fact the case.
Your question is not as simple as it sounds. One key fact missing is the total estate of the donor. In addition, if a loan, there could be issues with the lender. In order for the funds to be consider by the donee as purchase money to deduct the proceeds, the loan would have to be secured by the real property. The lender on the first may not be happy and you could have problems when apply and disclosing the loan.
You really should sit down with an estate planning attorney and also...