In short, there is no way to draw a line to fit every case as to at what point contact or communication becomes harassment. Attorneys and Judges have practical experience in arguing and resolving these disputes, and the best advice for you would be to consult with an attorney in detail about your case. But to take a stab in the dark, given the very limited detail provided in your question, the opinion of you counselor is a professional opinion that the court may take seriously, if you were...