There are several things that you'll need to keep in mind. With as much as you have on the line, it would be a good idea to at least sit down for an hour or two with an experienced family law attorney. A mediated settlement is far more likely to be followed and far cheaper to obtain than going to a contested hearing, but a poorly written agreement that ignores important issues could cost you dearly in the long run.
First, in Colorado child support runs until the children turn 19. The...
Yes, you can report a crime at any time and charges can be filed for a significant time after the incident. The delay may make it harder for the prosecution to prove their case, but if you committed domestic violence she is entitled to call the police even two weeks later.
Your son will be in jail until he is able to post bond or until trial (which could be several months). All of the charges are felonies (very serious charges) which could result in many years in prison if he is convicted. While he is in custody he qualifies for representation by the Public Defender and he needs to make sure that he has an attorney to help him with this process.
Probation can include many terms that go beyond merely being a law abiding citizen, but criminal law violations are always going to be violations of probation. Many moving violations are civil in nation and would not constitute criminal offenses. The best thing to do is to talk to your probation officer and work with them to resolve your issues. The worst thing to do is to surprise them.
Some things can be found via Google. Failing that, the Colorado Supreme Court and the Tenth Circuit Court of Appeals both have large free law libraries. If you have an idea of what you are looking for, speak to one of the librarians at one of these places.
Contempt of court is one option, although it can be somewhat complex and time consuming to pursue. Another option would be to ask the Court to reduce the amounts your ex was supposed to pay to a judgment and then garnish his bank accounts and his wages until you get the money you are entitled to. That may be more effective depending on whether or not your ex has assets and a steady job.
You would need to report the offense to the District Attorney or police in where the assault occurred. Felony sex assault on a child has no statute of limitations, although it does get harder to prosecute the more time passes. Additionally, you could bring a civil lawsuit if you wished. The time limit on that would be 6 years after you turn 18.
Ultimately, if your spouse wants to proceed with a divorce then there is nothing you can do to prevent it. The standard for dissolution of marriage is that the Court must find that the marriage is "irretrievably broken". For most judges, if one spouse is wiling to stand up in Court and ask for divorce, that is more than sufficient evidence that the marriage is irretrievably broken.
There is authority in the statute that allows for the court to delay the divorce to allow for the parties to...
Polygraphs are inherrently unreliable and do not produce evidence which is admissible in any court. Polygraph testing is also not inexpensive.
You are entitled to apply for representation by the public defender's office for any offense which may result in a jail sentence. Contact the public defender's office in Douglas County in order to apply for representation.