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Marta J. Papa

Marta J. Papa

Practice areas:

Divorce & Separation, Mediation

About Me

I am an attorney and mediator with a private family law pratice and a Mediation trainer.  I have more than 20 years of experience in successfully completing thousands of mediations and have achieved a reputation as one of St. Louis’ top mediators, earning the moniker "The Divorce Whisperer"®.  I've taught mediation at several Universities and have trained hundreds of judges, lawyers and mental health professionals nationwide to be mediators.  As a regular guest speaker and educator, I helped to establish mediation in the St. Louis area and have had numerous articles published on the subject. Whether you are a prospective client considering divorce or a professional looking to expand your career and become a mediator, I would love to talk with you!  My mission is to spread the secret of divorce mediation and to save time, money, and children of divorce.  


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Practice Areas

Licensed since 1980

  1. Divorce & Separation: 70%
    35 years, 4 thousand cases
  2. Mediation: 30%
    23 years, 3.5 thousand cases



Hourly ($275-295/hour)

Payment Types:

Cash, Check, Credit Card

Attorney Endorsements

1 total

  • Daniel Robert Schramm

    I worked with Marta Papa on several different matters over the years. I consider Marta to be one of the stop family law lawyers in the St. Louis area. I strongly endorse Marta for family law and mediation skills.


    Daniel Schramm Appeals Attorney
    Relationship: Worked together on matter

Contact Info


MOGood Standing, Active199501/08/2013
ILVoluntarily Inactive198005/14/2015

Professional Misconduct

We have not found any instances of professional misconduct for this lawyer.
Avvo Contributions
Legal Answers
Award NameGrantorDate Granted
Top LawyerMissouri Lawyers Weekly2015
AV Preeminent 5.0 out of 5 Peer Review RatedMartindale-Hubbell2015
Elected to the Bar Register of Preeminent LawyersMissouri Bar AssociationN/A

Work Experience
TitleCompany NameDuration
Founder and attorneyMarta J. Papa, PC1988 - Present

Association NamePosition NameDuration
Missouri BarMember1995 - Present
21st Judicial District Bar AssociationMemberN/A
St. Louis Psychological AssociationMemberN/A
International Academy of Collaborative ProfessionalsMemberN/A
ABA Advisory PanelMemberN/A
Bar Association of Metropolitan St. LouisMemberN/A
Association for Conflict ResolutionMemberN/A
Association of Missouri MediatorsMemberN/A
Association of Family Conciliatory CourtsMemberN/A

Publication NameTitleDate
Family Mediation QuarterlyRights of Never-Married and Same Sex Couples2008
Mediate.comBusiness Mediation: A Better Way to Resolve Workplace Conflict2008
St. Louis Lawyer MagazineCollaborative Law: A New Alternative for Divorcing Couples2003
St Louis Lawyer MagazineInterdisciplinary Collaborative Law2003
St. Louis LawyerInterdisciplinary Collaborative Law2003
Missouri Lawyers WeeklyCollaborative Law in Dissolution Cases2002
Missouri Lawyers WeeklyCollaborative Law in Dissolution Cases2002
Missouri Lawyers WeeklyDivorce Mediation in St. Louis County1998
Missouri Bar JournalDivorce Mediation: How is it Working in St. Louis1997

School NameMajorDegreeGraduated
Menninger School of Marriage and Family TherapyN/APost Graduate Studies Certificate1998
University of Houston Law CenterLawJD - Juris Doctor1980
University of IllinoisPolitical ScienceBS - Bachelor of Science1977

Speaking Engagements
Conference NameTitleDate
Illinois Mental Health Counselors Association, 23rd Annual ConferenceGuiding Divorcing Families Through Crisis as a Divorce Mediator2012
National Association of Social Workers-Illinois Chapter, 2011 Statewide ConferenceDivorce Whispering2011
University of Missouri Extension Program: Divorce on the HorizonDivorce Considerations for Women2010
Land of Lincoln Legal Assistance Foundation’s Family Law SeminarMediation2010
St. Louis Employee Assistance Program AssociationUsing Mediation in the Workplace2009
St. Clair County Continuing Legal Education: Survival Guide to Family LawMediaton2009
Clayton Public School CounselorsHelping Children Caught in the Middle of Divorce2009
National Association for Conflict Resolution National ConferenceNever Married and Same Sex Couples2008
National Association of Women Business OwnersNegotiation Strategies2007
Lewis and Clark Chapter of the Illinois Counseling AssociationCustody Mediation2007
Adoption and Foster Care Coalition Annual State ConventionMediating Adoptions2007
United States Arbitration and Mediation Semi-Annual TrainingAdvanced Mediation Training2001
Missouri Bar Advanced Guardian Ad Litem TrainingFamilies and Children and Mediation1999
St. Louis Financial Planners AssociationRole of a Financial Planner in Team MediationN/A