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  • How can I take legal action against my ex-spouse who hacked into my email, printed emails, and tried to use them in court?

    My ex-spouse and I and I are going through a bitter custody battle in court right now. I live in Wisconsin and he lives in Missouri. Our divorce and parenting plan is through Missouri. He went through my diary/personal notebooks and found the p...

    Tajara’s Answer

    I would start by calling the police (or going to the police station) and reporting this. I can think of at least a couple crimes he could be charged with.

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  • If I deny the whole thing can they charge me?Is there anything I need to know or need to say when they come to me to question me

    So when my roommate went to work I took his truck that he has let me use before to town, but without his permission this exact time. I wasn't told no. I just never asked. SO when I was on my way back home I passed a cop going over the limit and he...

    Tajara’s Answer

    Get this off the internet..you just confessed-there are ways to track IP addresses. They may have a dash camera that shows you. You have the right to remain silent. You have no obligation to implicate yourself. Make them prove you did it, no need to help them prove it so don't talk to them.

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  • How do you suggest I negotiate with emoloyer?

    I am professional 43 year old woman single mom , salaried. My employer has asked me to take action that is against the state statutes and violates public policy. I will not agree to do so. This has led to great distress over the last year. Sin...

    Tajara’s Answer

    call a local employment attorney. you need specific advice which cannot be given on a site like this! there are federal protections that may come into play here. Do not go to this meeting without speaking to someone.

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  • How old does a child have to be to decide who they want to live with in WI?

    Mother has custody and denies visitation to father. Daughter wants to live with father

    Tajara’s Answer

    Dad needs to fill a motion to either enforce placement or modify placement. The older a child gets the more the court might consider their wishes but they don't get to chose until 18. Until then the best interest of the child prevails.

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  • How to handle Parental POA or Guardianship?

    We had a child for a friend and the adoption fell threw due to lack of finances, he is still "her" child in our eyes, but we provide for him as parents, and if anything would change or happen we are more than willing to take him into our home and ...

    Tajara’s Answer

    You could do either. You should talk to an attorney to determine which is appropriate.

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  • What will my consequences be if I don't get the hours finished? Is there a way I can pay the hours off?

    I was given 21 days of county jail time with work release privileges and 1 year probation for resisting arrest. Part of my probation was to complete 20 hours of community service. I ended up doing about half the hours while incarcerated. In Octo...

    Tajara’s Answer

    your agent is likely to extend your probation. If you would have asked earlier, I would have said go find someplace to spend a long day volunteering and get it done! 20 hours in a year is not much!

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  • What would be the best way to handle this pension and gifting situation?

    My father has a pension. 11 years ago he stopped collecting. The IRS told him they were going to freeze his account for back taxes. He is terminally ill. Through the past years, I have lent him over forty thousand dollars. He recently discovere...

    Tajara’s Answer

    there is no way to answer this without seeing all the paperwork on the pension.

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  • Filing taxes

    Separated

    Tajara’s Answer

    Are you in the process of divorce? Look at your temporary order paperwork. Lacking an order, most of the time, filing married together gets the best refund. Have a CPA do it both ways and see which gets the best results. I

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  • Do I leave it alone or pursue this further?

    I put in my two week notice at work, and 5 days later all the employees received a raise, except me... I worked 8 days out of that two week notice & didn't get the raise.... Am I wrong for thinking, that I should be entitled to get that raise for...

    Tajara’s Answer

    yes, you are wrong. Raises are at the discretion of an employer. They have no reason to give you one when you already put in your notice. If there was some discriminatory reason there might be a claim (race, sex ,age, etc) but clearly here it is because you quit

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  • My friend in prison sent me a new question to ask (reworded). He didnt know what the character limit was on the question.

    A 20 year old had relations with 14 year old. Signs DPA withholding reduced 3rd degree sexual assault from 2nd, felony bail jumping ran concurrent, another 2nd with same victim dismissed/ read in. Gets 60 in Huber and 2 years paper as condition. v...

    Tajara’s Answer

    no, he had the opportunity not to be convicted of the 2nd at all. He messed up and went to prison. If the 28 year old messes up, he will get revoked and go to prison too.

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