The private bar takes on cases the SPD cannot handle for various reasons. They are still private attorneys even though they take these SPD cases. It sounds like a good thing to me as she has more experience than a purely private lawyer who never takes any SPD cases would have.
If you are within two years of the initial custody and placement order, he will have a very difficult time proving a change is necessary to protect the physical or emotional best interests of your child. So if you object, and you should with the help of counsel, simply moving in with his parents and freeloading off of them is no basis for a change in the current order. He most likely wants primary placement and to stop paying child support.
Because you never know what a court will do, you...
It definitely could be. A car does not even have to move for an OWI citation to be issued. In this case, it apparently was. If the driver was over the limit, that's the problem. There are defenses however so I suggest contacting an attorney who concentrates in OWI law. There are plenty of them. Find one who does this all the time,. It will be money well spent.
This area of law is complex. You need to speak to an attorney well-versed in easements and real estate. Eau Claire has plenty. Do a Google search or check the yellow pages. You seem to have a good claim, but this kind of thing can get tricky fast. Good luck!