I have been a practicing attorney since October 1995 and I love what I do. It is about helping people who are in tough situations to get through the situation as best as possible under the circumstances. Family, divorce and bankruptcy are emotional and negative areas for many people. I have seen many people in distress and depressed at the beginning of their cases, only to be very happy with a new zest for life after the issues have been resolved.
The reality is that any bad situation does not last forever. Furthermore, there is always a good side to every bad situation whether it can be seen or not. We could not enjoy as much the happy times in our life without knowing unhappy times. It's the contrast between them. My philosophy is to concentrate on that which you want to happen and not what is happening. You cannot think about bad things happening and get good results. So in essence, you get what you expect to get and therefore, you should expect only the best.