Hopefully, your ex will admit that you two have been voluntarily operating under a new schedule for some time. The cheapest way to proceed is to write an agreement to update the schedule to the new one that has been working. However, if she refuses to admit this, you must be prepared to prove the actual schedule as best you can. Keeping a journal or calendar is one way.
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In Florida, a lawyer is not legally required to draft or re-draft a will. But unless you feel more lucky than most people drafting wills, don't try to make any complicated changes in terms. You could re-type/print the whole thing and change your beneficiaries from Ann and Bob to Carlos and Doris. Then go find your own notary public and two witnesses and sign it. Please do not just cross out the old names and write in the new ones. That does not work. And some poor lawyer in your state...
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You don't have an immediate right to seal the record, but there may be a slower, more difficult, and expensive way to do it. I assume the time for appeal has passed. You would have to attack the conviction for some constitutional or legal infirmity, and if you are successful, you will have removed the impediment to sealing or expunging the record. One example would be a prisoner who is released years after conviction when new evidence of his innocence is discovered.
Under Florida law, anyone who possesses an original will of a deceased person must file it with the court. You could try calling all lawyers in that area who write wills. Unfortunately, she may have used a form from a book. The person who would know best if she had a will would be the one who went through her possessions. If she used an internet form, there may be a copy on her computer. Also, it may be sitting in a safe deposit box: you could ask at her bank.
I would add that expunction should be available if you are acquitted or the case is dismissed.
Child support is calculated the same way for married and unmarried people. But if the father does not admit his status, you are going to have to prove it. The Court might treat you as if you earn some money if it decides you could if you tried. All issues about time with the children will be decided based on what the evidence shows is in their best interest.
You could get a mortgage for the 25k and count yourself lucky. There is a good chance that after a lot of attorney's fees, a court would uphold her half-ownership, as she contributed money, and any extra equity to her was your gift in contemplation of marriage and/or death. Oral promises are not enforceable in real estate transactions, or contracts that cannot be completed within a year.
Under Florida law, if you plead the fifth, your refusal to answer may be used as an adverse inference against you. Of course that might be better than having a confession to a crime used against you. There are ways out of this dilemma which an attorney can advise you about.
I am not familiar with Texas homicide law. Even if a case pleads out quickly, usually, a lawyer has done some investigation. Only that way can a client be advised as to the best course. Sometimes a quick plea is a result of a fair deal in an unwinnable case. You should retrace the investigation done by the lawyer before throwing stones.