It really depends on the position of the District Attorney, and whether you actually have legal grounds for the MAR. One reason would be that you did not have an attorney and did not sign a waiver of counsel. Some DA's will consent to setting aside a plea of this type, while others never do. It would benefit you to hire an experienced lawyer that might be able to get you in front of a good DA and good judge.
The DMV restoration fee is separate from the court fines and FTA fee. You should bring proof that you sold the car when you go to the courthouse. If you are able to speak to an ADA, they might dismiss it since the car was sold. If not, I would hire a lawyer to try to get it dismissed for you. The attorney's fee should be less than the fine, costs and FTA fee. Then all you would have to pay is the DMV reinstatement fee.
The state where the accident occurred will have a significant impact on whether an attorney will take your case. North Carolina is one of only a few states in which contributory negligence is a complete bar to recovery. That means that even if you were only partially at fault, you cannot recover. If the accident occurred in another state, you may have a better chance of recovery.
Consult an attorney in the state where the accident occurred immediately.
Mr. Percise is absolutely correct. Improper equipment should be the first option, followed by 9-over.
There are many courts that will chastise a parent that shows up in place of a son or daughter. I would highly recommend hiring an attorney if the driver is unavailable. It is usually not a good idea to try to call before the court date. There are simply too many cases in the system for the ADA's to deal with them in that manner.
If the defendant's plea was not knowing and voluntary due to impairment, then it may be possible to set it aside. You should be aware that answering the questions in the plea transcript falsely could subject the defendant to additional charges.
If you did not complete the treatment in a timely manner, then you will need to have a new assessment and start the treatment over. You will not be eligible for a license until you have completed everything and the 508 form is sent to DMV from the assessing agency. Any limited privilege you have had expires one year from the date of your conviction. It CANNOT be extended while you complete the classes, so you are not eligible to drive after it expires.
One attorney can handle such a case, but it needs to be an experienced attorney. You will never get an attorney to take a case like that pro bono for the reason you stated. It will be too time consuming and would result in the lawyer going broke. Talk to the court appointed attorney and make sure they are up to the task. Courts usually will not add additional attorneys on the case unless it is a capital murder case.