From the very little that you mentions, I believe you should consider testying before the grand jury. Make sure you lawyer has filed the appropriate notices to protect your rights. My sense is this case maybe reduce to a lesser offense, but I would need more details.
You have to file for a modification in the Court that ordered the support amount if you can prove that your salary reduction was not your fault and it was based on market forces or a job loss, a hearing examiner will readjust the amount that you ar required to pay. B
Unfortunately there is nothing that can be done. tie Court system is broken. There are too many cases for to few Judges. when you spouse comes to this same realization you will have a settlement. Until that time your case may linger in court
You need to file a Summons in the county clerk's office, which is the same as purchasing an index number. You then must pay a process server to serve the documents on your wife. It is best to let an attorney handle this for you. Since it appears to be an uncontested case, attorney fees will generally be much lower than any mistakes you may accidentally make/pay for if you try to handle the matter on your own.
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His other marriage is invalid. Proceed with a divorce. You can file a complaint on your own and have him served, or you can retain an attorney in Plattsburgh to handle the paperwork for you. Different lawyers charge different prices, so its best to call a few firms and try to get general quotes.