Uncontested divorces tend to be flat fee cases, with all court/filing costs included in the fee you pay an attorney. Different attorneys charge different prices, so its best to call around and ask for quotes. I would advise to get orders from the court regarding custody and support, in the off chance that your relationship with your soon-to-be ex turns sour. Better safe than sorry.
From the very little that you mentions, I believe you should consider testying before the grand jury. Make sure you lawyer has filed the appropriate notices to protect your rights. My sense is this case maybe reduce to a lesser offense, but I would need more details.
You have to file for a modification in the Court that ordered the support amount if you can prove that your salary reduction was not your fault and it was based on market forces or a job loss, a hearing examiner will readjust the amount that you ar required to pay. B
Unfortunately there is nothing that can be done. tie Court system is broken. There are too many cases for to few Judges. when you spouse comes to this same realization you will have a settlement. Until that time your case may linger in court
As stated previously, assets are not split 50/50 in NYS. Assets will be split as equally as possible, or whatever the parties agree to. Marital property can be tricky, so it is best to consult with a local attorney in more detail.