I went to the police station. They told me I have to talk to the arresting officer, who only works weekends, so I have to wait. I then called the DA's office, who won't even speak to me about the case. They refuse to let me add anything, or retract anything, and told me I have to work directly with the police. Is this usual? They won'e even discuss the case with me. I am trying to be extremely proactive, but I keep hitting road blocks. What do I do from here? I left a message with the officer, but he probably won't get it and respond for a couple of days yet.

I finally talked to the arresting officer. He said THAT he put in the report that i refuse to press charges and that the DA will look at that and throw it out. without my testimony they have no evidence, and would drop the chares. I sure hope this is true. I asked him if he was telling me the truth and he said he was.....