Note that the DA may threaten you with charges of lying to the police. But if you really don't remember, and were intoxicated at the time, this is highly unlikely.

Thank you. he is not a sole provider, we have no kids, are not married, do not live together, and he has zero priors. I just want the DA to drop the case, if possible. I called the DA's office, but they don't have the case at all in their system yet.

I, for one, am impressed that you want to make things right, unless you're doing it because of pressure from your boyfriend. Prepare for some skepticism. My colleague, attorneys and DAs have heard this happen before.

Thank you. No, he is not pressuring me. It is 100% me wanting to fix this mess.

Thank you. No, he is not pressuring me. It is 100% me wanting to fix this mess.

Thank you. No, he is not pressuring me. It is 100% me wanting to fix this mess.

It take time for the DA to read the police reports - in this case, they may not charge your BF if they determine they don't have sufficient evidence, or it is unreliable.

Thank you. Praying the whole things gets thrown out. We just want this nightmare to be over

I talked to the arresting officer. He is telling me the DA won't be able to prosecute without my testimony, and since I told him since the incident that I refuse to press charges, the DA will drop the case? Can this be true? It is noted in the report that I refuse to press charges....

I talked to the arresting officer. He is telling me the DA won't be able to prosecute without my testimony, and since I told him since the incident that I refuse to press charges, the DA will drop the case? Can this be true? It is noted in the report that I refuse to press charges....