not sure if everyone here can see my comment, first of all thank you for your time and concern, it means so much to me at this point. Here are some of the answers to your questions:
1st My conditional resident is over in June so the earliest I can file is in March.
I had 100% proof that our marriage was valid. As we have a car loan together, banking account (that we had separated already) travel overseas once a year. The first year with friends and 2 of them can testify that I was afraid he was going to become physical.