Thank You! for the advice. I just don't understand how if two people go their separate ways get their own places and she leaves the kids because she can't financially take care of all three of them but when she has no job and no where to go....she is allowed to live with the kids, no matter what the circumstance is. Yet if she is living there, shes not willing to work or take the kids to school....Just using it as a place to stay since her kids are there. THANK YOU again for the advice : )