anonymous
Posted about 14 years ago.
My husband filed 2 false DV complaints as attempt to give an appearance to his pastor and the courts that i was not a stable person. He probably also led you to believe something similar. Just so you will know, I have never hurt, nor do I plan to hurt you or anyone else. I am a god fearing woman who also know that like me, if you stay with him, your life will become a living nightmare. My husband needs treatment for his sexual addiction and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. That's right, you are not the first he has seduced and preyed upon and unless he gets treatment you won't be the last. One other thought, if my husband really loved you he would not have put you in this position in the first place. If this person is my husband consider this. If my husband is the godly man he portrays himself to be, then he would have corrupted you into "shacking" up with him or anything else. He would have sent you on your way, told the truth, and gotten the therapy to rectify the wrongs and the harms done against me and our marriage. Finally, no matter what he has told you - he is my husband and you have no right to receive anything tangible or intangible from him. Period. So, if there is any human decency in you at all---walk away from him and find someone who has a right to married you-----and unto the Lord. That is if you claim to be a Christian.
anonymous
Posted about 14 years ago.
Oh, by the way the judge refuse to issue a TRO. What more my husband failed to show up for the hearing. All complaint were dismissed by the courts concerning domestic violence.
anonymous
Posted over 14 years ago.
If this is the person who thinks she is married to my husband, please know that we are still married and unless he follows the judge order to disclose his finance we will remain married. You are not his wife and I have no intention of divorcing him.. He lied to you, just as he has lied to everyone else. I love my husband but I don't share and neither should you have gotten involved with a man that was married. You should have spoke to me to find out just what kind of person I was before permitting yourself to get into this fix. I am fighting for my marriage and my husband. Let him go, he is not yours to have. He has no Biblical grounds to divorce me. If this is not you, then I would still suggest you contact the wife and find out for yourself the truth. Men who cheat also seduce and lie.