That is so unfair. Why is a mother seen as more important than the father especially when he is the sole supporter and she refuses to work and lives off the child support from the father. It should be equal and the mother should have to help with financial support if she is able. I don't understand how this can be fair if he is a good loving parent. He becomes very important and responsible for his child if he misses a child support payment! Is that all he is important in the child life for... Is to support the child and his mother so she doesn't have to get a job. This is al wrong.