I am not trying to evade anything, I'm just tired of my (eventually) ex husband using my daughter like a tool and not thinking about how she might feel or care... and it wasn't my intention to allow the case to become inactive, I just found out about it yesterday while I was at a paralegal getting my documents professionally taken care of to start the process up/over again and hopefully get this mess completed so my daughter can begin to have a normal and stable life before she gets too old and not able to adjust properly.