Oy vey. See my discussion above with Mr. Siepmann. Too bad the lawyers get a bad name because of the problems the Legislature has created. Yes, it creates legal work, but the clients never seem to be happy and shoot the messenger even when you're doing a good job (or the best you can given some of the inequities in these laws and the games they inspire).
The Judges here are still old fashioned. They still call bf/gf "paramours" and I have had several Judges threaten to suspend visitation if paramours are present while the divorce is proceeding.