to let the Non-US citizen know that it is in his/her interest to stay in the USA till she marries a US citizen.
that is what that couple has been told by 4 immigration lawyers
maybe you should start listening
So you are saying the non-citizen shouldn't leave before marrying the US citizen?
the non-citizen should not leave until she gets her green card, just because she gets married, it does nothing for her
Are you saying the Non -US Citizen can't even leave the country between the time it marries in the USA and the time it gets the green card (5 or 6 years, right?)