thank you! nope..there was only one email a year ago that's all, no physical contact only 1,000 emails exchanged about random stuff, unrelated to a threat, so there was only one that email a year ago and nothing has happened and if it was not for his t.r.o., we would still not even see each other. in fact, he has showed interest in wanting to be with me even after that email over the months, so how the hell he pretends to be 'threatened' over one email i do not know...will need to make this the argument. so basically there is no reason to believe that i am a threat to him because that angry and threatening email was written right after I filed for divorce from him so I was 1) angry; 2) emotional 3) he lied and used me so everything combined I basically burst in one email.
i said that i will cut off his head and he will end up in the hospital forever....basically he used me for green card and used my parents too so I was VERY angry lol and filed for divorce for his fraud. So I got upset and send that email to him while he was overseas (does this matter or not)...but see my comment does not even make sense and it's an emotional context because if i am cutting someone's head off then they would obviously die, but why the hell am I saying that he will end up in the hospital forever if I am saying something different in the beginning of the sentence....like I said I am the most peaceful people out there but he really screwed me while I loved him so I wanted to pour my emotions in that 1 line email I wrote him...BUT after that email we've been in communication for the whole year ranging from him wanting to be with me (to save his green card i said no) to random emails about basic random subjects..he sent me 990 emails while I sent him 1,013 emails in total after that one year old email....i do not think how a judge would assume that I am a threat when i don't even know where he lives and we have not seen each other for more than a year. also, in my culture, when you say you will cut off someone's head is said when people are angry and believe me that if that statement was taken seriously then there would be no person left from my culture on this world because everyone would be cutting off each other's heads lol. It's like 'i'll punch you in the face' type of thing...nothing serious and he knows this being form the same culture but he is taking me to court to try to save his green card....he could care less about any threat from me to be honest. So I need to defend myself against that stupid email of mine from a year ago. Anyways, thanks for the comments :) just wanted to explain the situation further.
p.s. i have a police report against him for his threat that if I report him to immigration he will have nothing to do but will hurt me before he leaves the country.....so his t.r.o. was only a retaliation attempt against my police report too besides trying to save his g.c. so technically he is threatening me and it was in December not a year ago like my 'threat' to him...so this goes to show you that he could care less about a fictitious threat..he has his own agenda for doing this.