Not a cheating husband... The Dissolution of Marriage was filed September of 2005 I ve seen it, as well as the case file. She's just being very difficult.
You asserted a 'deception' and mentioned a divorce that has been running for a time period closing in on a decade--that IS straight out of the handbook.
Unfortunately, you likely have no options other directing your attentions elsewhere.
Best of luck to you.
I'm trying thanks... The level of emotional stress from this situation is causing health issue severe migraines, and excessive asthma attacks... Trying not to stress but hard not to with affairs of the heart :-(
Hang in there--it always gets better. Talk to your firends and family, see a therapist. I wish you all the best.