I also did not mention that I was away from home for six months and this person threatened to call the police and report that I ran away and that was when I got mad. He has been harassing me since 1998, when I left for college.

As attorney Golden said, you have the right to be free from this type of horrible control or abuse. It sounds like you are in an extremely abusive relationship with this individual, and I would reach out to someone for help. An attorney can assist you in getting a restraining order and doing some safety planning, but it sounds like there is so much more going on here. You need someone to talk to.