I sent him an email last week asking "Please tell me why you wont let me spend more time with our son"
Father creates a list of all the ways he thinks I am violating court orders and those reasons are why he wont give me more time..... and what is killing me is I am not violating any court orders!!! Should I bring this letter to the judge....its reads like when I "obey" him and he likes how I treat him then he will let me see our son more . "when I behave" ...... I cant even respond to him. I cant comprehend his logic or doing this to him!!! When I had 70% years ago I always gave him more time infact he took me back to court so the child support would reflect he was getting 50/50 well I did that because our orders stated if father could spend more time with the child to honor his requests and I did...now that its flop flopped 8 years later our child deserves the same treatment with his mother now!!! AGGHHH I hope judges can see what is going on when they read the emails. We are going back to court going to file next week

What realistic expectations should I have from the judge when he sees the reasons why father is saying he wont give me more time? The judge sees I am following court orders etc Father is acting as judge and jurer on his own and I have to admit I am getting angry I am angry this is so upsetting I am the mother a good one....what can I ask the judge to do like what kind of punishment or penalty etc can I ask to be put on father for this crap....realistically? The reason why I am asking for a penalty of something be put on father is because this isnt the first time he trys to plays games with our custody and I always turn the other cheek to try to move on but it is allowing father to be more brazen and I am done, burnt cooked if he cant share custody peacefully and put our child first well......agghhh so frustrating dealing with someone justbeing a jerk