I know, it's just that I have a daughter and fear losing her if there was any problem with the green card because of all he did.

Sorry, I don't see the connection between CIS taking their time processing an AOS and 'losing' your daughter.

But, if you have strong fears .... hire an attorney.

Really? Ok.... If I were denied a green card and ordered to leave the country, my ex husband would fight to keep her and since she is a American citizen and so is he, I feared he would win.

This is an even better reason for you to spend the money to hire an immigration attorney.

If I had the money I would.

Good news: If you are low income go here: www.justice.gov/eoir/probono/states.htm or http://www.immigrationlawhelp.org/

Thank you very much :) the attorney working with me is doing it pro bono too, I only asked because I wanted more opinions. Thank you Mr. Capriotti.

Although it is good to get second opinions ...you can never get a 'good' second opinion without having both attorneys review all of the same immigration papers ... partial facts posted on an internet blog aren't the same thing.

Good luck.