For ALL these assets if there's ex stepson of my fathers involved in the probate & stepped in for our Dad as Attorney @ law, he told my Dads funeral director that my Dad had no kids, knowing darn well he did have, 3 daughters! Could it or should it of ALL gone to him?
Could you please explain to me so I can understand how this works?
As I indicated in your other posting, you need to see an attorney to review the documents. That attorney can advise you as to the ex-stepson's claims, etc.
What a funeral director is told has no effect on a probate.