He doesnt have a good case.....at least I think for example he wants to have me in contempt for not taking my child his football practice.....it does say in court order that if either parent cant take him then we call the other parent and have the other parent take him....well the child didnt want to go, and on top of that the court order states he must consult with the other parent to decide what sport we will put the child in...he didnt do that but I was still taking our child to the games but the child who is 10 said he didnt want to play.....so I was willing to take him but the child doesnt want to go and nothing in court order about what the child wants to doesnt want so I really didnt think I was doing anything wrong I even texted message the father telling him ahead of time the childs wishes ....and this was 3 months prior to him filing contempt but after I filed a TRO on him for stalking me after I moved. Its a revenge thing. I try to protect myself he tries to punish me

I told the public defender that the only deal I will agree to is I would agree to not file my own charges on the current court order violations he is doing in exchange for him dropping his current ones and we call it a wash, get a court mediator or something assigned to our case to work with us for future confusing or questionable issues and we go forward.