The information provided is very helpful, but she and I live in 2 different states..can I still look at the court house where I live and find information on the case?

You'd have to look in the courthouse where she filed. A courthouse in Florida will not have any information about a case filed in Georgia, or wherever. There are rules about which state you're supposed to file in - quite complicated rules - but there's no guarantee that she followed them. You can try calling a far-away courthouse and asking for help from the family law clerk.