Where do they go from here as far as getting him cleared to go to marriage counceling and such. Contact the DA or the sheriff?

It is a series of negotiations with the proper State representative, but having those conversations without the assistance of an attorney is a TERRIBLE idea. While I love many prosecutors (both of my partners are former prosecutors in fact), their duty is to the state and they are well trained to find and prosecute alleged offenders. Everything you say can AND WILL be used against your BF and even possibly you. You run a high risk of really hurting his case and possibly getting yourself into hot water. About 1/4 of my domestic violence clients have tried the "DIY" approach and then had to hire us because they were in over their heads. Lawyers go to school for a long time to get ready to manage these cases, doing it yourself is like doing your own plumbing, electric, car repair or Surgery. While you can try it, if you make a mistake the results are often catastrophic.

ok. thank you. seems my hands are tied until his lawyer makes a move. continued therapy for me and maybe seperate sessions for himself. atleast it will show them that he knows he is wrong and moving toward a positive direction.

ok. thank you. seems my hands are tied until his lawyer makes a move. continued therapy for me and maybe seperate sessions for himself. atleast it will show them that he knows he is wrong and moving toward a positive direction.

Therapy is always a good step to take. My grandfather helped found the Arkansas Psychological Association and my Brother runs the mental health program at a large prison in the Mid-West. I see a therapist due to the stress we see on the job and recommend anyone who is having a tough time do the same.