Maybe I should just be more succint and come right out with it: sooner or later while this blissful separation is going along its merry way and butterflies are flitting around the two of you, an argument will ensue over the same kind of issues that generated arguments when you were together, specifically, those so trivial that you will not even know what they were the next day. Meanwhile however, this person with whom you are quarreling has access to your bank accounts full custody and control over your children and where they travel;....see any problems yet? Save me some typing. Come on guy.