This is not the same question, I am asking about putting the case on hold for financial reasons not reconciling, I am asking because my husband probably will not consent to it. And yes I did plan poorly, but I am try to rectify now. Don't be such a hard Ass. People make mistakes. If my questions bother you so much, the don't respond to my questions.
poster, you asked a question. judy answered it. you do not like her answer. that is not her fault, it is yours.
what you have done is started lawsuit without the knowledge nor resources to pursue it. it is the same as opening a cook book, starting a recipe but not having all the ingredients nor utensils needed at hand.
once you file a lawsuit, other than to dismiss it, you lose control over the situation. the judge controls it. if you are not prepared to proceed, dismiss the suit now.
oh, and calling someone a hard ass accomplishes nothing positive.
gary - it's too bad the asker will probably never see your comment unless you post it as a separate answer answer. She is too into getting an answer she likes to accept an answer that is on point but not supportive of her position.
Once again I was trying to be more specific, not waste anyones time. But if you don't like what I post then don't respond to my post. Like I said before, " I know I was not prepared, but I am trying to rectify the situation now.
Go see a lawyer. You are wasting your time here. Likewise, if you don't like our answers, stop responding to us. Perhaps in person you will not be so offensive.