Thank you! Do you think I am better off with an attorney or a mediator, as Ms. Fischer above stated?
This is a decision you must make, along with your husband. I can tell you that while a mediator might help both parties determine the issues and figure out where the differences lie, if your husband is very angry, and accordingly, unwilling to sit down to work things out, retaining an attorney to advocate strongly for your positions might be a more sound approach. I wish you luck!